hello C/S 79...welcome to the forum. i was about our age when i made the same decision. that was a long time ago..
firstly
"my family (both sides) are well known in our circuit and very dedicated to the truth. "
nope--it aint the truth. its merely a high control scam masquerading as a religion.
if any one man elder wants to visit--and starts asking nosey questions--just say you had a very bad experience as a child with an elder--but you cant do anything about it because of the " 2 witness " rule........you wont see him again--for dust.
unsure about the 2 witness rule ? plenty of info on here.